Quotable: Elizabeth Gilbert On Wedding Day Glamour
“The fantasy of the wedding day is that it represents undeniable public and private truth that you have been chosen. For that one day, you are the most valuable creature in the world—a treasure, a princess, a prize. For many women, who have never felt chosen or desirable or precious, this is an unshakable yearning. And I'm afraid many women do choose the wedding over the marriage. It seems a steep price to pay, but it comes from a place of deep, sad longing to be loved and to have it proven that you are of value.” —Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love , in a Wall Street Journal interview about her new book, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage
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Virginia Postrel on January 02, 2010 in
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